Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 1087 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Am I Safe? 7/03/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth? 6/11/2019 Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries around Ambivalence? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is My Behavior a Reason for My Mate to Not Follow Boundaries? 6/05/2019 Q&A Should We Send a Cease and Desist to the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can We Stay Safe While Traveling? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should We Take EMS Online Even If There Is Still Contact with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2019 Q&A What Would Be Considered a Relapse or Relapse Behavior? 5/21/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel the One Place I Can Be Myself and Be Safe Is a Place I Now Get Attacked? 5/21/2019 Q&A Should Safety Override Pursuing the Path We Think Might Be Best for Us? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When Children Are Involved? 4/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
