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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved?	8/25/2015
	Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Should I Run Away?	8/25/2015
	Q&A How do Different Grieving Processes Affect Affair Recovery?	8/25/2015
	Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage?	8/18/2015
	Q&A When do you Know to Stay or Go?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Would Harboring Hope or EMDR be More Helpful?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How do we Once Again Light the Fire of Desire?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How Should we Disclose to our Teenager?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner?	8/18/2015
	Q&A At what Point do I Move on?	8/11/2015
	Q&A What is he Addicted to?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Deal with the Shame of the Unfaithful?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him?	8/11/2015
	Q&A How Much do I Need to Know?	8/11/2015
	Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her?	8/04/2015
	Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge?	8/04/2015
	Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair?	8/04/2015
	Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair?	8/04/2015
	Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness?	8/04/2015
	Q&A What Next?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs?	7/31/2015
	Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery?	7/31/2015
	Q&A How do I Help my Teenage Children Cope?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired?	7/31/2015
	Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did?	7/31/2015
	Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone?	7/31/2015
	The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery	7/29/2015
	Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like?	7/28/2015
	Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right?	7/28/2015
	Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News?	7/28/2015
	Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation?	7/20/2015
	Q&A Can we Modify the Order of Married for Life Lessons?	7/20/2015
	Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner?	7/20/2015
	Social Shame Survey	7/15/2015
	Q&A How Does PTSD Affect Affair Recovery?	7/07/2015
	Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity?	7/07/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not?	7/07/2015