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Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend? 10/25/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact? 10/25/2017 Q&A Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A Am I in a Phase? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference? 10/25/2017 Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife? 10/25/2017 Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here? 10/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…545556575859606162…next ›last »