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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Could This Be the End?	2/15/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend.	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Release and Let Go of the Shame?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Work Through the Difficulties Regarding my Husband Leaving me for his Affair Partner?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Regain Positive Feelings Towards the Man Who Betrayed Me?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What Would you Suggest for Us to Reconnect Emotionally?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I do Now that I Feel Doomed to an Unfulfilled Married Life?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance?	2/08/2017
	Q&A He Desires the Affair Partner but is Choosing me Because it's the Right Thing to do. What do I do with that?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Could you Share Your Story?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Disclose to my Unfaithful Husband that I'm Leaving?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her?	2/08/2017
	The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome	2/08/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise?	2/02/2017
	Q&A Do you Plan to Update the Married for Life Curriculum Soon?	2/02/2017
	Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us?	2/02/2017
	Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues?	1/24/2017
	Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed?	1/24/2017
	Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding?	1/24/2017
	Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back?	1/24/2017
	Q&A I Want Sex but Not with my Spouse; Will a Separation Help?	1/18/2017
	Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again?	1/18/2017
	Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner?	1/18/2017
	Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group?	1/11/2017
	Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict?	1/11/2017