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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Replacing Physical Items Helpful for Managing Triggers?	1/12/2016
	Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us?	1/12/2016
	Q&A Will Another Course Help Us Reconnect?	1/12/2016
	Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to?	1/12/2016
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts On Renewing of Vows?	1/12/2016
	Q&A What's it Going to Take for Him to Get it?	1/12/2016
	Q&A Do You Recommend a Regular Polygraph in Recovery?	1/12/2016
	Q&A Will the AP Lie?	1/12/2016
	Q&A What Can We Do About the Triggers?	1/12/2016
	Q&A Will He Be Able to Stop the Memories?	1/12/2016
	Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety?	1/05/2016
	Q&A How Can We Communicate in Love?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Why Isn't Rick Forthcoming About His Relapse?	1/05/2016
	Q&A What is the Mind's Reason for Intrusive Thoughts?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope?	1/05/2016
	Q&A He Betrayed ME! Why Am I Pursuing HIM?!	1/05/2016
	Q&A Are We Missing Something?	1/05/2016
	Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Is Her Lack of Emotion Normal?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Do I Have to Know About it?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father?	1/05/2016
	Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity?	12/23/2015
	Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness?	12/23/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone?	12/23/2015
	Q&A How Can We Get Past the Triggers At Home?	12/23/2015
	Q&A Why Do I Still Not Desire Him?	12/23/2015
	Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery?	12/23/2015
	Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating?	12/23/2015
	Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go	12/23/2015
	Q&A Should I Stop Waiting for Him to Own This?	12/23/2015
	Q&A What Role Should Fantasies Play in the Marriage Bed?	12/22/2015
	Q&A Should We Show Affection In Front of Our Children?	12/22/2015
	Q&A How Much Work is Necessary?	12/22/2015
	Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me?	12/22/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help Her With Intimacy?	12/22/2015
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing?	12/22/2015
	Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work?	12/22/2015
	Q&A Should We Spend the Holidays Together?	12/22/2015
	Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like?	12/15/2015
	Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade?	12/15/2015
	Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse?	12/15/2015
	Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9?	12/15/2015
	Q&A How Can I Assure My Mate I'm Letting Go of My AP?	12/15/2015
	Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge?	12/15/2015
	Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake?	12/15/2015
	Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation?	12/15/2015
	Q&A Will Married for Life See a Makeover?	12/15/2015
	Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor	12/09/2015
	Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It?	12/08/2015
	Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit?	12/08/2015