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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery	8/25/2021
	Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery	8/18/2021
	Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online?	8/17/2021
	Q&A Should I Let Him Go?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This?	8/17/2021
	Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy?	8/17/2021
	Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me?	8/17/2021
	Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs?	8/17/2021
	Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair?	8/17/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair?	8/02/2021
	Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner?	8/02/2021
	Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction?	8/02/2021
	Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter?	8/02/2021
	Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place?	7/22/2021
	Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity?	7/22/2021
	Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery?	7/13/2021
	Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based?	7/08/2021
	Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting?	7/08/2021
	Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn?	7/08/2021
	Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women?	7/08/2021
	Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery?	6/17/2021
	Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me?	6/17/2021
	Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast?	6/17/2021