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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues?	12/17/2020
	Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Have You Seen Polyamorous Couples Come through the Program?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other?	12/09/2020
	Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing?	12/09/2020
	Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome?	12/09/2020
	The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy	12/02/2020
	Q&A What is Objectification?	12/01/2020
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible?	12/01/2020
	Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse?	11/24/2020
	Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break?	11/24/2020
	Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help?	11/24/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Could You Help?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder?	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Should He Leave His Job?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again?	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse?	11/18/2020
	Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown?	11/12/2020