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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair?	11/12/2020
	Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help	11/11/2020
	Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process?	10/29/2020
	Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair?	10/29/2020
	Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph?	10/29/2020
	Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It?	10/29/2020
	Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should I File for Divorce?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Was it Really Love?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Kids about the Infidelity?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward?	10/05/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True?	10/05/2020
	Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse?	10/05/2020
	Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth?	10/05/2020
	Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More?	10/05/2020