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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Friends?	8/27/2020
	Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Is There Therapy for an Attachment Disorder and If So What Is It?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt?	8/27/2020
	Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do?	8/27/2020
	Q&A What Is a Real Trigger?	8/20/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is This Type of Acting Out Not Part of What We Call a Mid-life Crisis?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Should My Next Move Be?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It?	8/13/2020
	Hope Rising 2020 Announcement	8/11/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sexual Fantasies of My Wife?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Was This an Emotional Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy?	8/06/2020