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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Being Repulsed by My Husband?	1/22/2018
	Q&A How Do We Re-establish a Sexual Relationship?	1/22/2018
	Q&A How Long Does It Take the Unfaithful to Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?	1/22/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do When There Are No Actions behind the Words?	1/22/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking?	1/22/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do?”	1/22/2018
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP?	1/22/2018
	Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce?	1/22/2018
	Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT	1/18/2018
	Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again?	1/10/2018
	Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want?	1/10/2018
	Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance?	1/10/2018
	Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'?	1/10/2018
	Q&A Can You Address Different Personalities in Marriage?	1/10/2018
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Affair Partner Won't Let Go?	1/10/2018
	Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test?	1/10/2018
	Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Hang on to My Resolve?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Needs in the Marriage?	1/08/2018
	Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Show My Mate Grace?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell My Affair Partner That I Don't Love Her?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain?	1/08/2018
	Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Is It Unreasonable to Expect My Mate to Be Honest about Their Needs?	1/08/2018
	Q&A What Can Affair Recovery Do Tell Help a Compulsive Liar?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Do Actions Affect Identity?	1/08/2018
	Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles?	1/08/2018
	Q&A Should I Just Suck It Up?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Surrender Control?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Should My New Dream Look Like?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can He Not Get It?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You End an Affair with an Unstable Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Stuck?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does He Really Want Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Is It Taking My Unfaithful Husband Longer to Get over His Affair Than Me?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is He an Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Move On?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Will This Pain Ever Let up over Time or Will Seeing This Constantly Keep Us All from Healing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Accept That My Mate Is Frustrated at Non-Affair Things?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can We Find an Appropriate Couples Counselor?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage?	12/20/2017