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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Aren't There More People Doing Blogs?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Engage?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Emotional Fog Last?	12/20/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Heal from the Massive Anxiety I Am Now Facing?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Heal from Sexual Anorexia?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Work on a Marriage You Might End up Leaving?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do You Handle Doubt?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Where Does Self-Love Fit in to the Process of Recovery?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Address My Separation Anxiety?	12/20/2017
	Q&A How Long Will the Unfaithful Stay Ambivalent?	12/20/2017
	Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness?	12/06/2017
	Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?	12/06/2017
	Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Will I Ever Get past This?	12/06/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?	12/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?	11/28/2017
	Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?	11/28/2017
	Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?	11/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?	11/28/2017
	Q&A Why Does Affair Recovery Use the Negative Label ‘Unfaithful Spouse’?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?	11/22/2017
	Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?	11/22/2017
	Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws?	11/22/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?	11/15/2017
	Q&A Is It Time to Give Up?	11/15/2017
	Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation?	11/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?	11/10/2017
	Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?	11/10/2017
	Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?	11/10/2017