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Type	Title	Posted
	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
	Why is Trusting Again So Hard?	7/29/2026
	Anger: Its 6 Roots	7/22/2026
	The Biggest Myths About Unfaithful Wives	7/15/2026
	Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds	6/24/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Am I Living in Denial?	9/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like?	9/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Am I on the Right Path to Healing?	9/20/2017
	Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair	9/20/2017
	What Really Happens at EMS Weekend?	9/14/2017
	Q&A Is It Likely That He Still Has Feelings for the Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Can You Offer Options for Support in Our Area?	9/08/2017
	Q&A At What Point Can I Alleviate the Impact of Divorce and Move On?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Is There a Correlation between Attachment to the Affair Partner and Reluctance of Disclosure?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for Spouse to Grieve over the Affair Partner?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Could You Better Explain My Mates Participation in My Sexual Identity?	9/06/2017
	Q&A What Is the Role of Parents in the Recovery Process?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal and How Do We Regain Interest and Momentum Again?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Where Do We Go from Here?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do We Re-Frame Our Story?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Would You Please Expand on Your Experiences with Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sex Addiction?	9/06/2017
	Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Best Decide If I Stay or If I Go?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Would You Recommend a Post-Nuptial Agreement for Parental Custody?	9/06/2017
	Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is This an Unhealthy Way to Heal?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery?	9/06/2017
	Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online	8/30/2017
	Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair?	8/18/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Get Annoyed or Impatient with Your Spouse?	8/18/2017
	Bill and Gayle's Mentor Video	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do I Compete with the Affair Partner?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know I Have Forgiven Both My Husband and the AP?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships?	8/16/2017
	Q&A In What Way Will This Impact the Healing of Our Marriage?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Can You Elaborate on the Affair Recovery Timeline?	8/16/2017