All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can I Assure My Mate I'm Letting Go of My AP? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015 Q&A Will Married for Life See a Makeover? 12/15/2015 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit? 12/08/2015 Q&A I'm the Unfaithful. Why Should I Keep the Marriage? 12/08/2015 Q&A Where Can I Find the Trust to Rebuild? 12/08/2015 Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It? 12/08/2015 Q&A Is There Hope For This? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can I Get a Mentor in a Rural Area? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can Our Family Survive the Holidays? 12/08/2015 Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter? 12/01/2015 Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature? 12/01/2015 Q&A What Can We Do About Nosey Siblings and Holiday Tension? 12/01/2015 Q&A I'm the Unfaithful Spouse. How Can I Come To Desire My Mate Again? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015 Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse? 12/01/2015 Q&A Was This Authority Rape? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015 Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It? 11/19/2015 Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 11/19/2015 Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain? 11/17/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage? 11/17/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back? 11/10/2015 Q&A The Affair Was Going On Before Our Wedding, How Do I Answer These EMSO Questions? 11/10/2015 Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse With Sex Related Triggers? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction? 11/10/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start? 11/04/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"? 11/04/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…767778798081828384…next ›last »