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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	3/12/2018
	Q&A What Do You Think about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Why Is He Still So Defensive?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Am I Deluding Myself?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is There a Purposeful Way We Can Get past This?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Our Sexual Barriers?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is Pre-Mature Ejaculation an Indication of Shame from an Ongoing Affair?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is My Husband Safe?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Could This Affair Really Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery?	2/28/2018
	Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible for a Person to Truly Love Two Different People?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Let My Wife Know Her Affair Partner Has Had Another Affair?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Express My Emotions?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Hate for the Other Woman?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do We Decide Where to Go from Here?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Seek Validation?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Process This?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Express My Pain in a Safe Way?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Am Being Held Captive?	2/21/2018
	How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling	2/21/2018
	Q&A What Steps Should I Take for Personal Healing?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is Our Sex Drive Physical or Emotional?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Does the Affair Partner Have Any Right to Happiness?	2/14/2018
	Q&A Do Couples Really Get Better?	2/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Altered View of My Unfaithful Wife?	2/14/2018