For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?
Video icon Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This?
Video icon Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth?
Video icon Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD?
Video icon Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling?
Video icon Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?
Video icon Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?
Video icon Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is?
Video icon Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?
Video icon Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband
Video icon Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair?
Text icon Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me?
Text icon Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison
Video icon Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away?