For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019 Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend? 8/20/2019 Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal? 8/20/2019 Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »
