For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »
