For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1278 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Pursuing Me? 1/16/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance? 1/16/2019 Q&A Do I Save Myself or Save the Marriage? 1/16/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner? 1/09/2019 Q&A Am I Expecting too Much? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again? 10/23/2018 Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »
