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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 539 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process? 5/07/2020 Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure? 5/07/2020 Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story? 5/07/2020 Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts? 3/03/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share? 2/11/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Is ‘Therapeutic Disclosure’ as It Relates to Pre-Polygraph Testing? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery? 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level? 9/18/2019 Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019 Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Being Truthful with Me? 8/23/2019 Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
