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Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details? 4/12/2017 Q&A Can this Be Turned Around? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017 Q&A How do I Heal from PTSD Caused by Years of Deceit? 4/05/2017 Q&A Will the Nature of Our Disclosure Complicate Our Healing? 3/22/2017 Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake. 2/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth? 2/15/2017 Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend. 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure? 2/08/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112next ›last »
