Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 3934 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women? 7/08/2021 Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast? 6/17/2021 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Is the Likelihood of a Betrayed Spouse Achieving Self-Actualization If They Stay with Their Unfaithful Spouse? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems? 6/17/2021 Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers? 6/16/2021 Q&A Can I Hope for a Better Future? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation? 6/16/2021 Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner? 6/16/2021 Q&A Could This Method of Coping and the Escalation Not Indicate a Sexual Addiction Even Though the Person Only Used Porn Casually? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now? 6/16/2021 Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did My Husband Have an Affair Because He Felt Unloved and Unappreciated In Our Marriage? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is Fantasy Sex a Betrayal? 6/16/2021 Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021 QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go? 6/16/2021 Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort? 6/16/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness? 6/03/2021 Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime? 5/25/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…67891011121314…next ›last »
