Why Marriages Fail

These barriers to healing are the common elements that hinder successful recovery. Identify and overcome pitfalls such as denial, transmitting pain, withholding information, and more.

70 Resources
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Text icon Dealing with Reminders
Text icon Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment
Text icon Revenge: Responding to an Affair
Audio icon Rekindling Desire After An Affair
Text icon Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them
Video icon A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity
Text icon Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds
Text icon Grieving Betrayal
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known
Text icon The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity
Text icon When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity
Text icon Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
Text icon The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial
Text icon Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It
Video icon Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works
Video icon Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses
Video icon Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage?
Text icon Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.
Text icon Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair
Video icon Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery?
Text icon Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT
Video icon Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You?
Video icon Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use?
Video icon Q&A Can We Recover from This?
Video icon Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?
Video icon Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?
Video icon Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero?
Video icon Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities?
Video icon Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back?
Video icon Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction.
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out?
Video icon Q&A How Common are Affairs?
Video icon Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children?
Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With?