Dealing with Reminders
4/15/2026
Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment
10/01/2025
Revenge: Responding to an Affair
3/19/2025
Rekindling Desire After An Affair
8/14/2024
Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them
7/24/2024
A Toxic Mix: Gaslighting and Infidelity
5/15/2024
Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds
2/07/2024
Grieving Betrayal
1/17/2024
Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known
10/11/2023
The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity
9/27/2023
When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity
5/03/2023
Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted
12/07/2022
The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change
10/05/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial
6/08/2022
Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It
6/01/2022
Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works
4/27/2022
Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses
6/24/2020
Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair?
3/26/2020
Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage?
11/22/2019
Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.
8/21/2019
Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair
6/27/2018
Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery?
1/23/2018
Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT
1/18/2018
Q&A What is the Dynamic of the Relationship between Your Ex-Spouses and Their Affair Partners?
8/10/2017
Q&A What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Withholding from You?
8/10/2017
Q&A When Can We Focus on the Affair Rather Than Problems in the Marriage?
8/10/2017
Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use?
8/10/2017
Q&A Can We Recover from This?
8/02/2017
Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?
7/19/2017
Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
7/12/2017
Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
7/12/2017
Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?
7/12/2017
Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?
7/12/2017
Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?
7/12/2017
Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?
7/12/2017
Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me?
7/05/2017
Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal?
6/28/2017
Q&A Am I Crazy for Not Wanting My Husband to Be around His Affair Partner?
6/28/2017
Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse?
5/10/2017
Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online?
5/10/2017
Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero?
5/03/2017
Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities?
5/03/2017
Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back?
5/03/2017
Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction.
4/25/2017
Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better?
4/12/2017
Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out?
4/12/2017
Q&A How Common are Affairs?
4/12/2017
Q&A What does Working Through this in a healthy way look like for me and my children?
4/05/2017
Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence?
3/29/2017
Q&A Why Should I Stay in a Marriage That Wasn't So Great to Begin With?
3/29/2017