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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Change My Perception of My Mate?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Best Support My Children during This Time of Uncertainty?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Does It Matter If My Husband Never Told the Truth about the Affair?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Survey?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Does One Reconcile Faith with the Affair And Letting Your Mate Go?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life)	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Does Recovery Look Like If There Is a Pregnancy from the Affair?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse?	3/12/2018
	Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Use Prostitutes and Not Be Addicted?	3/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us to Ever Be Intimate Again?	3/12/2018
	Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	3/12/2018
	Q&A What Do You Think about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Why Is He Still So Defensive?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Am I Deluding Myself?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is There a Purposeful Way We Can Get past This?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Our Sexual Barriers?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is Pre-Mature Ejaculation an Indication of Shame from an Ongoing Affair?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is My Husband Safe?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Could This Affair Really Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions?	2/28/2018