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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time?	1/11/2023
	Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?	1/11/2023
	Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?	1/11/2023
	Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?	1/11/2023
	Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat?	12/14/2022
	Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted	12/07/2022
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating?	12/06/2022
	Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced?	12/06/2022
	Pleasing Versus Loving	11/29/2022
	Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help	11/23/2022
	Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?	11/03/2022
	The Mystery of Change	11/02/2022
	Is Change Really Possible?	10/26/2022
	Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity?	10/13/2022
	Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?	10/13/2022
	The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change	10/05/2022
	Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn?	9/13/2022
	Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence?	9/13/2022
	Q&A What Can We Do Differently?	9/13/2022
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?	8/26/2022
	Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends?	8/26/2022
	Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker?	8/26/2022
	Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage?	8/26/2022
	Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids?	8/10/2022
	Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?	8/03/2022