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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Emotions That Come with This?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move?	5/02/2018
	Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in This Situation?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay to Celebrate My Success in Working on the Marriage?	5/02/2018
	Q&A What Is an Exit Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A What Is the Right Thing for Us to Do with a Child Born from the Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a “180” on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for a Sex Addict to Come out of the Denial?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Long Is Too Long?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Stop Living in the Past?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever See the Affair for What It Really Was?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Am I Wrong Not to Look Back on Previous Years of Marriage with Fond Memories?	4/25/2018
	Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again?	4/18/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Find Myself Expressing Emotion through Tears So Much in My Recovery?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible for My Sex Addicted Husband to Stop Being Attracted to Other Women?	4/18/2018
	Q&A How Long Do We Keep Talking and Reading about the Affair?	4/18/2018
	Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Who's Responsible?	4/18/2018
	Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Will I Know If I Am Ready to Move on and Trust Again?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Persevere through the Anger and Break the Stalemate?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Programs Would You Suggest for My Unfaithful Husband?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is This Infidelity?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Can We Connect during the Time Away from Each Other?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Empathize?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay to Seek Counsel from My Pastor Even Though My Spouse Doesn't Want To?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Am I Stuck in the Healing Process?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do You Make Life Changing Decisions a Few Months after D-Day?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Successful Is the Married for Life Aftercare Program?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Our Marriage?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Helping My Mate with PTSD?	4/11/2018