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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful	2/21/2024
	Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair?	1/30/2024
	Q&A What Stops an Emotional Affair from Becoming Physical? How Do I Work through This Chasm in Our View of What Happened?	1/30/2024
	Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore?	1/30/2024
	Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together?	1/30/2024
	Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair?	1/30/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us?	1/30/2024
	What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery	1/24/2024
	Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable?	1/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions?	1/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me?	1/09/2024
	Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading?	1/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?	1/09/2024
	Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse?	1/09/2024
	Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity	12/27/2023
	Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends?	12/12/2023
	Who is the Other Woman?	12/06/2023
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy	11/28/2023
	Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair?	11/28/2023
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried?	11/28/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community?	11/28/2023
	Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?	11/28/2023
	Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner?	11/28/2023
	Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism?	11/28/2023
	Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery	11/22/2023
	Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability?	10/24/2023
	Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?	10/23/2023
	Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?	10/23/2023
	Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?	10/23/2023
	The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope	10/18/2023
	Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known	10/11/2023
	Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery	10/04/2023
	Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?	9/29/2023
	Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything?	9/29/2023
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?	9/29/2023
	The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity	9/27/2023
	Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders	9/20/2023
	How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair?	9/13/2023
	Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?	9/12/2023
	Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?	9/12/2023
	Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?	9/12/2023