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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go?	4/24/2015
	Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again?	4/24/2015
	Q&A What Resource Would You Recommend for Non-Infidelity Related Marital Struggles?	4/24/2015
	Q&A What Does Recovery Look Like?	4/24/2015
	Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship?	4/24/2015
	Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP?	4/24/2015
	Q&A How Can I Trust Him if I Can't See Him?	4/24/2015
	Q&A How do We Heal When We Were Both Unfaithful?	4/21/2015
	Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House?	4/21/2015
	Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone?	4/21/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help my Husband Forgive Himself for Leaving his Affair Partner?	4/21/2015
	Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man?	4/21/2015
	Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair?	4/21/2015
	Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife?	4/21/2015
	Q&A Are There any Successful Stories Following Dual Affairs?	4/21/2015
	Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission?	4/15/2015
	Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind?	4/15/2015
	Q&A How can I Believe that my Husband's Affair is Over?	4/15/2015
	Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State?	4/15/2015
	Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do?	4/15/2015
	Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior?	4/15/2015
	Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse?	4/15/2015
	Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home?	4/15/2015
	Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround?	4/15/2015
	Q&A What's Your Advice on Moving?	3/31/2015
	Q&A Stuck!?	3/31/2015
	Q&A What is Going Through His Mind?	3/31/2015
	Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner?	3/31/2015
	Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate?	3/31/2015
	Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession?	3/31/2015
	Q&A Why am I Still Upset?	3/31/2015
	Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings?	3/20/2015
	Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How Can I Come to Grips that my Husband Thought he was In Love With Someone Else?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Am I Someone Who Can't Recover from This?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How Long does Limerance Last?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce?	3/20/2015
	Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information?	3/20/2015
	Q&A How can I Create Safety When my Betrayed Mate won't Talk About it?	3/16/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible that my Mate has no Feelings for the AP Anymore?	3/16/2015
	Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us?	3/16/2015
	Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain?	3/10/2015
	Q&A Married for Life: Can I Do Battle of the Mind Before the Sex Talk?	3/10/2015
	Q&A After 3 Separate Discoveries of Infidelity, How Can I Tell if This is True Change?	3/10/2015