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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
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	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026
	Q&A Am I Emotionally Ruined for Good, Or Can This Change Over Time?	10/22/2026
	Q&A How Do I Lead My Children Through This if the Marriage Doesn't Make It?	10/22/2026

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4640 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is There Therapy for an Attachment Disorder and If So What Is It?	8/27/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt?	8/27/2020
	Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do?	8/27/2020
	Q&A What Is a Real Trigger?	8/20/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is This Type of Acting Out Not Part of What We Call a Mid-life Crisis?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Should My Next Move Be?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It?	8/13/2020
	Hope Rising 2020 Announcement	8/11/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sexual Fantasies of My Wife?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Was This an Emotional Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage?	8/06/2020