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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
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	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026
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4640 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can You Explain to Me Why They Felt the Need to Have Sex Given Their Anxiety?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Why Can't My Husband Show Any Affection If He Says He Loves Me?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Adapt the Travel Plan for the Wayward Spouse Staying at Home While the Betrayed Is Away?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	7/30/2020
	Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me?	7/30/2020
	Q&A Are We at Risk of Not Fully Recovering?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused?	7/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband?	7/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger?	7/28/2020
	Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma?	7/28/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband?	7/16/2020
	Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy?	7/16/2020
	Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Triggers That Just Can't Be Avoided?	7/16/2020
	Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Is This a Psychological Behavior You Have Seen Before?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Can You Help with Intrusive Thoughts?	7/09/2020
	Q&A What Do You Do for the Wayward Spouse's Trauma?	7/09/2020
	Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair?	7/09/2020
	Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?	7/09/2020
	Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does?	7/09/2020
	Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Have Multiple Affair Types?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Does an Emotional Affair Affect Your Sex Life?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders?	7/09/2020
	Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End?	7/02/2020