For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023
Text Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023
Text Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023
Text Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023
Text Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022
Text Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
Text The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022
Video Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022
Video Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022
Video Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022

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