For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? We Started Well, but... The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline 859 Resources : For The Hurt Spouse Type Title Posted Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/9/2021 Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity? 3/9/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/9/2021 Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women? 3/9/2021 The Inconvenient Truth About Love and Loss 2/25/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 12345678910111213141516171819202122232425262728293031323334353637383940414243> next