For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The 2 Stages of Pain Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity We Started Well, but... Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 475 Resources : For The Hurt Spouse Type Title Posted Anger, the Betrayed Spouse, and Boundaries 9/20/2018 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 9/19/2018 What Defensiveness Does to the Betrayed Spouse 9/13/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Why Does the Unfaithful Spouse Withdraw during Communication about Infidelity? 8/30/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Rediscovering Your Partner's Heart after Infidelity Part Two 8/28/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 123456789101112131415161718192021222324> next
