For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing?
Video icon Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable?
Video icon Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children?
Video icon Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger?
Video icon Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know?
Video icon Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past?
Video icon Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now?
Video icon Q&A Should I File for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Was it Really Love?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid?
Video icon Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide?
Video icon Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal?
Video icon Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special?
Video icon Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair?
Video icon Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind?
Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable?
Video icon Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive?
Video icon Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did?