For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 339 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change? 7/02/2025 Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery? 4/16/2025 Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025 Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025 Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025 Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025 Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 3/26/2025 Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 3/12/2025 Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025 Wanting to Be Wanted 3/05/2025 Am I Who They Want? 2/25/2025 Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood? 2/25/2025 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 2/19/2025 Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2025 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2025 Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025 Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective 12/26/2024 Tips for Surviving the Holidays 12/18/2024 How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity 12/11/2024 Were They Thinking of Me? 12/04/2024 The Fantasyland of an Affair 11/27/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024 Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024 Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024 Q&A Why Should I Stay With My Current Wife When I Really Want to Be With My Ex-Wife? 3/19/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Pages1234567next ›last »
