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Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 3952 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023 Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023 Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023 Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023 Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together? 3/02/2023 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023 Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023 Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Long Typically Does It Take for a Betrayed Spouse to Forgive Their Unfaithful Spouse If the Unfaithful Spouse Is Doing the Work to Reconcile? 2/17/2023 Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023 Q&A Does This Type of Repeated Behavior Indicate an Addiction or Wanting Both the Marriage and the Affair, or Both? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023 Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time? 1/11/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022 Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022 Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating? 12/06/2022 Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022 Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process? 12/06/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022 Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness? 11/03/2022 Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery? 11/03/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
