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The Problem with Forgiveness 378 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery? 11/01/2018 Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity? 8/29/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was? 8/22/2018 Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair? 5/02/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/02/2018 Q&A What Is an Exit Affair? 4/25/2018 Q&A Who's Responsible? 4/18/2018 Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Was He in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction? 3/05/2018 Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him? 3/05/2018 Q&A Can the Unfaithful Really Not Have an Answer to the 'Why'? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Common for Affairs to Start in the Midst of Traumatic Events? 2/14/2018 Q&A Are Affairs the Direct Result of Marital Deficits? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Could He Be so Loving and Romantic Toward the AP? 2/14/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking? 1/22/2018 Q&A Does He Really Want Me? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is He an Addict? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Did My Husband Treat Me Like His Greatest Enemy during His Secret Affair? 12/20/2017 Q&A Do You Think Cheaters Are Just Morally Bankrupt? 12/20/2017 Q&A Is My Mate Drawn towards Something Bad and Repulsed by Something Good? 12/20/2017 Q&A Why Does the Unfaithful Compare Their Mate to the Affair Partner? 12/20/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »