Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? 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Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 283 Resources Type Title Posted The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/08/2017 Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity 12/13/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs 8/03/2016 Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016 Q&A (Preview) Should We Consider Separating? 7/13/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/01/2016 Q&A What are the Statistics? 5/17/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A How do I Celebrate Our Wedding Anniversary Now? 4/26/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? 2/09/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Avoid These Common Mistakes 1/27/2016 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? 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