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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key	3/26/2025
	Revenge: Responding to an Affair	3/19/2025
	Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair	3/12/2025
	Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me?	3/11/2025
	Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery?	3/11/2025
	Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?	3/11/2025
	Wanting to Be Wanted	3/05/2025
	Am I Who They Want?	2/25/2025
	Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood?	2/25/2025
	Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens?	2/25/2025
	Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?	2/25/2025
	Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?	2/19/2025
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?	2/18/2025
	Why the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Talk About the Affair	2/12/2025
	Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This.	2/11/2025
	Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop?	2/11/2025
	Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?	2/11/2025
	Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years?	2/11/2025
	What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse?	2/04/2025
	Q&A Is It Possible to Have an Emotional Affair for Many Years and Not Be In Limerence?	2/04/2025
	Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner?	2/04/2025
	Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart?	2/04/2025
	Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Continue to Lie About Plans with the Affair Partner?	2/04/2025
	Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife?	2/04/2025
	How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse?	1/29/2025
	Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?	1/22/2025
	Destructive Patterns in Communication	1/15/2025
	Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend?	1/14/2025
	Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion?	1/14/2025
	Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker?	1/08/2025
	Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair?	1/08/2025
	Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal?	1/08/2025
	Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair?	1/08/2025
	Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity	1/08/2025
	Recovery Tips to Face the New Year	1/01/2025
	Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective	12/26/2024
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy?	12/17/2024
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery?	12/17/2024
	How to Prevent Relapse After Infidelity	12/11/2024
	Were They Thinking of Me?	12/04/2024
	Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change?	12/03/2024
	Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again?	12/03/2024
	The Fantasyland of an Affair	11/27/2024
	Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner?	11/26/2024
	Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity	11/20/2024
	Mistakes Families Make After an Affair	11/13/2024
	Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse?	11/12/2024
	Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done?	11/12/2024
	Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair?	11/06/2024
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation?	11/05/2024