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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery?	4/02/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness?	4/02/2020
	Q&A Is It Time for a Separation?	4/02/2020
	Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery?	4/02/2020
	Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes	3/30/2020
	Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair?	3/26/2020
	Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle?	3/26/2020
	Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality?	3/26/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking?	3/19/2020
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When My Spouse Is Still in Contact with the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane?	3/19/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner?	3/19/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Is Recovery Different If the Porn Addiction Is Same Sex?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Counter the Serious Assault on My Self Esteem?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sex with My Mate under These Circumstances?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What More Can Be Done to Save My Marriage?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Make Sure That the past Doesn't Ruin the Present?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can My Wife Get the Help She Needs Given This Situation?	3/16/2020
	Q&A What Can We Do When My Husband’s Only True Confidant Is a Serious Trigger for Me?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Can a Couple Survive Multiple Sexual Infidelities Including One Embroiled in Legal Issues?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Do Serious Health Issues Impact a Spouses Decision to Have an Affair?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery?	3/16/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship?	3/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?	3/16/2020
	Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting?	3/12/2020
	Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse?	3/10/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault?	3/10/2020
	Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do?	3/10/2020
	Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery?	3/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me?	3/03/2020
	Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity?	3/03/2020
	Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?	2/20/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me?	2/20/2020
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery?	2/20/2020