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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Why do People Cheat? How do People Justify Having an Affair	2/20/2019
	Rodney and Angela Mentor Video	2/14/2019
	Q&A How Do We Find the Right Therapist?	2/13/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Anger Management?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Should a Spouse with Sexual Addiction Refrain from Masturbation during Recovery?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How Do We Recover When My Spouse Has Trouble Talking about the Affair and Internal Feelings?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How Do We Recover When We Have a Hard Time Communicating?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How Can We Become More Transparent with Each Other?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Wrap My Mind around My Mate’s Sexual Addiction?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Would We Benefit from Sleeping in Separate Rooms?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Am I a Hypocrite for Staying?	2/13/2019
	Q&A What Steps Do You Take to Find the Right Accountability Partner?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Will My Partner Ever Treat Me as Well as the Affair Partner?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How do We Handle the Affair Partners Immature Actions?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Get Help?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Can My Husband Understand My Desire for Him and Wanting Him to Desire Me?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Am I Being Controlling in Our Recovery?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Create Safety?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Betrayed Spouse's Ambivalence?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convey That I Still Loved My Spouse during My Affair?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Am I Interpreting Free Will Wrong?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Is My Mate Really Trying to Recover?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Deal with Feelings of Abandonment When We Chose Not to Be Intimate?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Mates Ambivalence?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Should I Stay with My Wayward Spouse?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner about an STD?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Where Is God in All of This?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Are You Familiar with the Enneagram of Personality?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Can I Get over an Affair Partner I Work With?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Can You Truly Love Someone Else If You Don't Love Yourself First?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Husband Is a Sex Addict?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Closure with the Affair Partner?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?	1/30/2019
	Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity	1/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Better to Be Able to Talk about the Affair Partner or to Act like They Never Existed?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Is His Explanation Probable?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Such Destructive Behavior?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Provide Me with Objective Perspective?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do You Know in Your Heart That You Need to Call It Quits?	1/28/2019