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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can We Reconnect While Living Apart?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Have We Both Betrayed Each Other?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Resources to Help with Connection?	1/09/2019
	Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We End Our Separation?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Husband Interested in Me Sexually?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Balance Processing Everything without Becoming Overwhelmed with It?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Secondary Issues and Address the Infidelity?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Can I Regain Trust after so Much Deception?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Same-Sex Infidelity?	1/09/2019
	Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy?	1/09/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember?	1/03/2019
	Q&A How Can I Explain the Difference between Being Faithful to Your Spouse and Unmet Sexual Expectations?	1/03/2019
	Q&A What Should Our Next Step in Recovery Be?	1/03/2019
	Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity?	1/03/2019
	Q&A How Do You Grieve?	1/03/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal My Self-Esteem?	1/03/2019
	Q&A How Can We Make Our Intimacy Special Again?	1/03/2019
	Q&A How Can We Overcome This Lack of Transparency?	1/03/2019
	Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Cope with This Trauma?	1/03/2019
	Q&A Is It Safe to Give Our Marriage Another Chance?	12/14/2018
	Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past?	12/14/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find the Motivation and Strength to Continue Trying When My Mate Is Stuck in Anger and Rage?	12/14/2018
	Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days?	12/14/2018
	Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty?	12/14/2018
	Q&A What Is the Next Step for Me?	12/14/2018
	Q&A Do I Just Need More Time to Grieve?	12/14/2018
	Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping?	12/14/2018
	Q&A How Common Is It for Financial Devastation to Accompany Infidelity?	12/12/2018
	Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results?	12/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Help Our Son Heal from the Infidelity?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Am I Expecting too Much?	12/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Quit Worrying about Our Sexual Relationship?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations to Help Pastors with Understanding How Infidelity Affects Us?	12/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Continued Fantasy Thinking?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity?	12/12/2018
	Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Delete All Reminders of the Affair Partner?	12/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Things with My Addictive Personality?	12/05/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain?	12/05/2018
	Q&A How Can I Tell If My Spouse Is Being Honest?	12/05/2018
	Q&A Am I Too Broken?	12/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get My Anger under Control?	12/05/2018