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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Does Living a Life of Recovery Look Like?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Him Truly Get It?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Will This End?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again?	10/17/2018
	Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful?	10/17/2018
	Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Heal Without My Feelings Being Hijacked by Fear?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner?	10/17/2018
	Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Statistics on Relapse?	10/10/2018
	Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring?	10/10/2018
	Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Am I Paranoid?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Can We Survive as a Couple?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Why Do You Believe We Are Not Defined as 'Sinners'?	10/10/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse?	10/10/2018
	Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Has a Sexual Addiction?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Find Restoration in Our Intimacy?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Good Can Come from Loving an Addict?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe?	9/26/2018
	Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Can You Address Narcissism with Infidelity?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Is It Normal to Have Zero Interest in Reconciliation?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way?	9/26/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse?	9/26/2018
	Q&A Am I Being Too Nice?	9/26/2018
	Q&A How Do I Find Hope for Our Relationship When It Feels so Hopeless?	9/20/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Trauma and PTSD?	9/20/2018