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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner?	8/17/2021
	Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair?	8/02/2021
	Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner?	8/02/2021
	Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction?	8/02/2021
	Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter?	8/02/2021
	Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place?	7/22/2021
	Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity?	7/22/2021
	Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck?	7/22/2021
	Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe?	7/13/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery?	7/13/2021
	Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete?	7/13/2021
	Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based?	7/08/2021
	Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting?	7/08/2021
	Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn?	7/08/2021
	Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again?	7/08/2021
	Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women?	7/08/2021
	Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery?	6/17/2021
	Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me?	6/17/2021
	Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast?	6/17/2021
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are?	6/17/2021
	Q&A What Is the Likelihood of a Betrayed Spouse Achieving Self-Actualization If They Stay with Their Unfaithful Spouse?	6/17/2021
	Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems?	6/17/2021
	Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Can I Hope for a Better Future?	6/16/2021
	Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry?	6/16/2021
	Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner?	6/16/2021
	Q&A Could This Method of Coping and the Escalation Not Indicate a Sexual Addiction Even Though the Person Only Used Porn Casually?	6/16/2021