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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse?	8/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again?	8/18/2020
	Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is This Type of Acting Out Not Part of What We Call a Mid-life Crisis?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Should My Next Move Be?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It?	8/13/2020
	Hope Rising 2020 Announcement	8/11/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sexual Fantasies of My Wife?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Was This an Emotional Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Explain to Me Why They Felt the Need to Have Sex Given Their Anxiety?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Why Can't My Husband Show Any Affection If He Says He Loves Me?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Adapt the Travel Plan for the Wayward Spouse Staying at Home While the Betrayed Is Away?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	7/30/2020