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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Will My Partner Ever Treat Me as Well as the Affair Partner?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'?	2/13/2019
	Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me?	2/13/2019
	Q&A How do We Handle the Affair Partners Immature Actions?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Get Help?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Can My Husband Understand My Desire for Him and Wanting Him to Desire Me?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Am I Being Controlling in Our Recovery?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Create Safety?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Betrayed Spouse's Ambivalence?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convey That I Still Loved My Spouse during My Affair?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Am I Interpreting Free Will Wrong?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Is My Mate Really Trying to Recover?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Deal with Feelings of Abandonment When We Chose Not to Be Intimate?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Mates Ambivalence?	2/06/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Should I Stay with My Wayward Spouse?	2/06/2019
	Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner about an STD?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Where Is God in All of This?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Are You Familiar with the Enneagram of Personality?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Can I Get over an Affair Partner I Work With?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Can You Truly Love Someone Else If You Don't Love Yourself First?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Husband Is a Sex Addict?	1/30/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Closure with the Affair Partner?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done?	1/30/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?	1/30/2019
	Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity	1/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Better to Be Able to Talk about the Affair Partner or to Act like They Never Existed?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Is His Explanation Probable?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Such Destructive Behavior?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Provide Me with Objective Perspective?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do You Know in Your Heart That You Need to Call It Quits?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from Multiple Traumatic Events?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband the Way I Once Did?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Respond to My Husband's Outburst?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Maintain a Realistic View of My Spouse, Marriage and Expectations in Life Married to a Sex Addict?	1/28/2019
	Q&A What Is Something That Couple's Do to Take Back Anniversary Dates?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should I Consider Counseling?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Why Seek Recovery for a Marriage That Was Always Bad?	1/28/2019
	Q&A Should My Husband Be Evaluated for Sexual Addiction?	1/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Define My Losses?	1/28/2019