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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is There Something Tangible to Look toward When You Can't Trust Your Own Gut?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Is It Time to Bite the Bullet and End the Marriage?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Long do I Wait for My Mate to Choose the Relationship?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What's Next for Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Should We Revisit Locations That Trigger Me?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Work on the Marriage with an Unfaithful Wife That Won't Do Recovery Work?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Should I Focus On?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Face What This Did to Us?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Can I Use Harboring Hope to Recover from Infidelity in Two Marriages?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What's Wrong with Me?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for My Situation?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle Seeing My Mates Affair Partner on a Regular Basis?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Grieve My Husbands Feelings for the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	4/05/2018
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar?	4/05/2018
	Q&A Is It True That Sometimes "Rock Bottom" Is the Best Foundation from Which to Build On?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Help Our Children after Involving Them Too Much?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Why Did My Unfaithful Husband Tell His Friends about the Affair?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Can I Move past the Physical Part of the Infidelity?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Need to Make My Husband Pay for What He Did?	3/28/2018
	Q&A What’s Your Opinion about This Recovery Method?	3/28/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconnect with My Mate Again?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Can I Find the Help I Need to Process What I Am Feeling?	3/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Giving My Spouse Time to Show Effort?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Why Is Everything Great until I Get Triggered?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Is Time to Draw the Line in the Sand?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Will I Ever Move past This and Desire a Connection Again?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Why Save the Marriage Instead of Starting New Elsewhere?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Change My Perception of My Mate?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Best Support My Children during This Time of Uncertainty?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Does It Matter If My Husband Never Told the Truth about the Affair?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Actions Are Necessary from the Unfaithful during Recovery?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Can My Unfaithful Husband Be Sexually Satisfied with Me after Being Intimate with a Young Pretty Girl?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Survey?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do We Protect Our Young Children during Recovery?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Things Do the Betrayed Need to Consider When Deciding Whether or Not to Reconcile?	3/23/2018