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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should I Contact the Affair Partners after Discovering My STD?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Does One Reconcile Faith with the Affair And Letting Your Mate Go?	3/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Combine the EMS Program with Other Things? (e.g. Couples Therapy or Married for Life)	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Does Recovery Look Like If There Is a Pregnancy from the Affair?	3/23/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Isn't Trying to Recover?	3/23/2018
	Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse?	3/12/2018
	Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible to Use Prostitutes and Not Be Addicted?	3/12/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us to Ever Be Intimate Again?	3/12/2018
	Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Beneficial to Allow Your Mate to Read Your Journal?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could His Behaviors towards His Co-Workers Explain His Disconnection with Me?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Could He Really Not Have Feelings for the Affair Partner?	3/12/2018
	Q&A What Do You Think about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery?	3/12/2018
	Q&A Why Is He Still So Defensive?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will My Mate Forever Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Am I Deluding Myself?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is There a Purposeful Way We Can Get past This?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is a Validation Addiction?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay That I Now Want to End Our Marriage and Move On?	3/05/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Approach Divorce in This Situation?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate?	3/05/2018
	Q&A If My Unfaithful Mate Was Mentally ill, Do I Have the Right to Be Angry with Him?	3/05/2018
	Q&A How Do We Overcome Our Sexual Barriers?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Show Commitment without Making False Vows or Promises?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Guilt for Ending the Marriage?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is Pre-Mature Ejaculation an Indication of Shame from an Ongoing Affair?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is My Husband Safe?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do We Heal When My Spouse Has No Empathy for Me?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Reclaim What Has Been Lost?	2/28/2018
	Q&A Could This Affair Really Be the Best Thing That’s Ever Happened to Us?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions?	2/28/2018
	Q&A How Can Family and Friends Support Us during Recovery?	2/28/2018
	Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling	2/28/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible for a Person to Truly Love Two Different People?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Let My Wife Know Her Affair Partner Has Had Another Affair?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Should I Express My Emotions?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Hate for the Other Woman?	2/21/2018
	Q&A How Do We Decide Where to Go from Here?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Does My Husband Seek Validation?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Can't I Process This?	2/21/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Am Being Held Captive?	2/21/2018