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	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
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	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?	11/01/2017
	Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?	11/01/2017
	Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?	11/01/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Do I Need to Know?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Do I Need to Know?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Am I in a Phase?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here?	10/25/2017
	Q&A Are the Details of Relationships Prior to Marriage worth Sharing?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate?	10/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again?	10/25/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me?	10/25/2017
	Understanding Grief in Infidelity	10/24/2017
	Do You Struggle with Forgiveness?	10/17/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers?	10/10/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse?	10/10/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This?	10/10/2017
	Q&A When Do We Address My Mates Contributions to Our Marriage Issues?	10/10/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim?	10/10/2017