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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair?	10/09/2017
	Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity?	10/09/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online?	10/09/2017
	Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover?	10/09/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing?	10/09/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate?	10/05/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle People Ignoring the Affair?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Sexual Things My Husband Would Do with His AP, but Not with Me?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is It Important That the Unfaithful Mourn the Loss of the Affair/Affair Partner?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Can a Man Truly Love Two Women at the Same Time?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine?	10/05/2017
	Q&A What's the Difference between Being Emotionally Attached and Unable to Detach?	10/05/2017
	Q&A Does It Ever Feel Okay to Get the Divorce?	10/05/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get through Each Day Knowing My Mate Doesn't Love Me or Want Me?	9/27/2017
	Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation?	9/27/2017
	Q&A What Do We Do from Here?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers?	9/27/2017
	Q&A What Should My next Step Be?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Does Trauma Bonding Impact Recovery?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace?	9/27/2017
	Q&A Are There Similarities between Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Far Back Should We Go?	9/27/2017
	Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Is There Such Thing as A "Fake Recovery"?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Am I Living in Denial?	9/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like?	9/20/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Am I on the Right Path to Healing?	9/20/2017
	Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair	9/20/2017
	What Really Happens at EMS Weekend?	9/14/2017
	Q&A Is It Likely That He Still Has Feelings for the Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Can You Offer Options for Support in Our Area?	9/08/2017
	Q&A At What Point Can I Alleviate the Impact of Divorce and Move On?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Is There a Correlation between Attachment to the Affair Partner and Reluctance of Disclosure?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse?	9/08/2017