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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate?	10/01/2015
	Q&A Is it Harmful To Push Through Sexual Intimacy?	10/01/2015
	Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field	9/30/2015
	Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field	9/30/2015
	Q&A Are My Questions Unfair?	9/28/2015
	Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery?	9/28/2015
	Q&A Normal People do Not do This!	9/22/2015
	Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers?	9/22/2015
	Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict?	9/22/2015
	Q&A Why His Ex?	9/22/2015
	Q&A How do I Transform my Pain?	9/22/2015
	Q&A Who Can I Talk to?	9/22/2015
	Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery?	9/22/2015
	Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her?	9/22/2015
	Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker?	9/22/2015
	Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it?	9/17/2015
	Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal?	9/17/2015
	Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Do People Really Get Past the Trauma and Triggers?	9/17/2015
	Q&A What 12-Step Group Should I Attend?	9/17/2015
	Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them?	9/17/2015
	Q&A Is the Uneasiness Normal?	9/01/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it?	9/01/2015
	Q&A What's Bare Minimum Relapse Prevention?	9/01/2015
	Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it?	9/01/2015
	Q&A What are the Right Questions?	9/01/2015
	Q&A Is this because of his Father?	9/01/2015
	Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand?	8/27/2015
	Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner?	8/27/2015
	Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well?	8/27/2015
	Q&A Why are Some Cheaters Sorry and Others aren't?	8/27/2015
	Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations?	8/25/2015
	Q&A What Help is out there for Someone Getting Divorced?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved?	8/25/2015
	Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Should I Run Away?	8/25/2015
	Q&A How do Different Grieving Processes Affect Affair Recovery?	8/25/2015
	Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth?	8/25/2015
	Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage?	8/18/2015
	Q&A When do you Know to Stay or Go?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Would Harboring Hope or EMDR be More Helpful?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating?	8/18/2015
	Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long?	8/18/2015
	Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done?	8/18/2015