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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification	2/01/2023
	Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?	1/26/2023
	Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair?	1/26/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?	1/26/2023
	Q&A Does This Type of Repeated Behavior Indicate an Addiction or Wanting Both the Marriage and the Affair, or Both?	1/26/2023
	How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal	1/25/2023
	How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity	1/18/2023
	Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions?	1/11/2023
	Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate?	1/11/2023
	Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them?	1/11/2023
	Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time?	1/11/2023
	Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?	1/11/2023
	Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'?	1/11/2023
	Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?	1/11/2023
	Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel?	1/11/2023
	Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat?	12/14/2022
	Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted	12/07/2022
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating?	12/06/2022
	Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced?	12/06/2022
	Pleasing Versus Loving	11/29/2022
	Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help	11/23/2022
	Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?	11/03/2022
	The Mystery of Change	11/02/2022
	Is Change Really Possible?	10/26/2022
	Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity?	10/13/2022
	Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him?	10/13/2022