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	Grieving Betrayal	8/05/2026
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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Leave the Marriage or Should I Stay?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Should I Ask My Unfaithful Wife for What I Want?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Will I Know When the Time Is Right to Date Again?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is a 'Loss of Self' Specific to Infidelity or Trauma?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Common Is It for the Unfaithful Wife to Shut Down?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Do You Have Any Insights on My Situation?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Doubts and Uncertainty?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with a Lack of Safety in Recovery?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	5/07/2018
	Q&A Is Recovery Delayed Because We Are Also Best Friends?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Can I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery?	5/07/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Emotions That Come with This?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Move?	5/02/2018
	Q&A How Do You Get over Forbidden Love?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in This Situation?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth?	5/02/2018
	Q&A Is It Okay to Celebrate My Success in Working on the Marriage?	5/02/2018
	Q&A What Is an Exit Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A What Is the Right Thing for Us to Do with a Child Born from the Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a “180” on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for a Sex Addict to Come out of the Denial?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Long Is Too Long?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?	4/25/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Stop Living in the Past?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever See the Affair for What It Really Was?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me?	4/25/2018
	Q&A Am I Wrong Not to Look Back on Previous Years of Marriage with Fond Memories?	4/25/2018
	Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again?	4/18/2018
	Q&A What Should I Do When My Mate Is Ranting at Me?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Why Do I Find Myself Expressing Emotion through Tears So Much in My Recovery?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible for My Sex Addicted Husband to Stop Being Attracted to Other Women?	4/18/2018
	Q&A How Long Do We Keep Talking and Reading about the Affair?	4/18/2018
	Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts?	4/18/2018
	Q&A Who's Responsible?	4/18/2018
	Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner?	4/11/2018
	Q&A How Will I Know If I Am Ready to Move on and Trust Again?	4/11/2018