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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity	9/11/2016
	The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity	9/11/2016
	Q&A How do I Explain to Our Kids Why Daddy Isn't Here?	9/07/2016
	Q&A How Can I Break Down My Walls and Be Intimate Again?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary?	9/07/2016
	Q&A What Can We do to Enjoy Sex Again?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healing in My Mate?	9/07/2016
	Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations and Words for My Unfaithful Mate?	9/07/2016
	Q&A What Can We Do to Make Them Leave Their AP?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Given Our History Now?	9/07/2016
	Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority?	9/07/2016
	Q&A What Causes Someone to do Such Horrific Things?	9/07/2016
	Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation?	9/07/2016
	Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair	9/02/2016
	Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law?	8/30/2016
	Q&A What's Causing This and How do We Fix it?	8/30/2016
	Q&A Will the Larger Problems be Addressed?	8/30/2016
	Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse the Benefits of Small Groups?	8/30/2016
	Q&A What's Causing This and How do We Fix it?	8/30/2016
	Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Can We Move Past My Reaction to Triggering Images?	8/24/2016
	Q&A What Can We do to Reconnect and Gain Happiness?	8/24/2016
	Q&A When Does it Become Harmful to Want to Be Wanted?	8/24/2016
	Q&A I Want Permission to Leave.	8/24/2016
	Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense?	8/24/2016
	Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage?	8/24/2016
	Q&A What Does This Verse from Proverbs Mean for Me?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Do We Create a New Pattern and Move Past the Shame?	8/24/2016
	Q&A What Should I Transform My Pain Into?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's?	8/24/2016
	Q&A My Mate has Changed Drastically for the Better. Is This Real?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Much Recovery is Needed Before Energy is Put Towards 'Us'?	8/24/2016
	Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying?	8/24/2016
	Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind?	8/24/2016
	Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert	8/24/2016
	Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love?	8/09/2016
	Q&A Where is the True Empathy?	8/09/2016
	Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others?	8/09/2016
	Q&A Is it Too Much to Ask for More Sex?	8/09/2016
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure?	8/09/2016
	Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility?	8/09/2016
	Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs	8/03/2016
	Q&A Does My Spouse Need Intensive Therapy?	8/03/2016
	Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Can Marriages Survive Mismatched Personalities and Sexual Differences?	8/03/2016
	Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner?	8/03/2016
	Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'?	8/03/2016