All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband? 1/07/2021 Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is the Roller Coaster of Emotions Normal? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Help Our Adult and Teenage Children? 12/17/2020 Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is There Any Chance of a Future for Us Building a New Life Together? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with past Trauma? 12/17/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020 Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed? 12/17/2020 Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues? 12/17/2020 Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 12/17/2020 Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter? 12/17/2020 Q&A Have You Seen Polyamorous Couples Come through the Program? 12/17/2020 Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other? 12/09/2020 Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020 Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A What is Objectification? 12/01/2020 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible? 12/01/2020 Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery? 11/18/2020 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »