For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling? 12/19/2019 Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays? 12/05/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit? 11/05/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts? 11/05/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery? 10/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing? 10/23/2019 Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair? 10/23/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
