For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria?
Video icon Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis?
Video icon Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns?
Video icon Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly?
Video icon Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?
Video icon Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?
Video icon Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’?
Video icon Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?